I usually avoid questions like this, simply because I feel adults should know better. But you seem sincere and respectful in your approach so let me tell you what I think. #1-there is NO such thing as safe raw sex!! there is no combination of circumstances that will make it “safer”. Not letting him cum inside you, taking a enema afterwards or anything else you might be thinking will never be fool proof.
#2-There are risk involved in ANY sexual contact. You could suck somebodys dick for the very first time and end up with open sores and shit in your mouth. knowledge is power.
#3-prepare yourself for the consequences. If you haven’t been raped or underage, all sex is considered consensual. However with it comes consequences. I live in a town where everybody fucks everybody else and we ALL end up at the clinic one time or another. If you want to play raw, understand that its not anybody else’s job to protect YOU from anything. It’s YOUR job! When you have sex, you have sex with everybody else your partner has had sex with too. It amazes me that some guys can run around bouncing on every random dick online and then have the audacity to try to act innocent when the liquor and drugs wear off. Its the equivalent of scarfing down a plate of food because you were hungry only to then ask afterwards, “hey, were there peanuts in there, because I’m allergic?”
#4-Be real with yourself. At the end of the day many of us prefer it raw because of how it feels. But trust me, the best “feeling” in the world is to have some hot ass sex with a rubber and then not have to worry about anything else afterwards!
Hope that helps-